爱莫能助莫：没有谁不能；助：帮助。虽然同情但无力相助。例我爱莫能助请你好自为之吧。英be unable to help even for the sake of love; love but have no ability to help; willing to help but unable to do so;[查看详情]

吃里爬外受着这一方面的好处暗地里却为另一方尽力。“爬”也作“抓”英work for the interest of an opposing group at the expense of one’s own;[查看详情]

损人利己为自己的利益而使别人受损失。也作“损人益己”例广智广谋成甚用损人利己一场空。——《西游记》为政者理则可矣何必严刑树威。损人益己恐非仁恕之道。——《旧唐书陆象先传》英seek satisfaction for oneself at the cost of others; enrich oneself to the detrimen[查看详情]

自顾不暇自己照顾不了自己。多指无暇顾及他人。[查看详情]